Counselor’s Corner: Habit 2, 9-2-11
Counselor’s Corner by Jennie Weber, School Counselor
The beginning of the school year is a great time to look ahead and form some personal goals. In essence, it is a perfect time to put Habit 2: “Begin with the End in Mind – Have a Plan,” into place. By looking at what we want to have accomplished by the END of the school year, it allows us to step back and formulate some steps we need to take DURING the school year in order to reach that end destination.
Students may want to set goals of raising grades in math, spending more time studying (even when there isn’t homework), making more friends, or being a better listener. Following Habit 2 for the end goal of studying more may include a plan for setting a regular study time, asking for extra worksheets, and finding a study-buddy.
As parents, you can show your children how you are setting goals for home, school or work! J Maybe you are setting the goal of spending more time with family, developing a hobby (to cover Habit 7 – Sharpen the Saw, also!), volunteering at school, or reach a productivity goal at work. Your family goal might involve a plan that allows for getting home early one afternoon a week, spending quality time with each child individually, or one night a week going out with your spouse.
Teachers and staff here at school are also setting goals and making plans. Some are taking extra courses to advance a specific training, some are dedicating time to family and friends, and some are finding ways to better serve their home parishes.
Whatever our goals may be, we are surely to be more successful in reaching them if we develop plans to get there. Goals seem less daunting when we can work on one step at a time and step-by-step plans are more likely to reveal the necessary details.
What’s your goal for this school year? How can you help your child(ren) form and reach his/her goal? How can we here at school be of service to you and your children as you set your goals and “begin with the end in mind”?
I’d love to hear how you are doing! Send me an email (jeweber@holyfamily.dbq.pvt.k12.ia.us) telling me about your goals and plans. I promise to cheer you as you take your steps to success!
And of course don’t forget to pray about your goals. Spending time in prayer and in quiet may reveal GOD’S plan for you! Enjoy taking His lead and being an active part in seeing it through!
“The heart of man plans his way,
but the Lord establishes his steps.” – Proverbs 16:9